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Thursday, 20 December 2012

21.12.2012: Am I going to Die?

Life & death is unpredictable- as a maxim is; but nothing is precluded from the intellectual minds of this 21st century to turn it into a possibility.  Here we are, predicting the demolition of our very own world- & that’s on: 21-december-2012! ;) Lol! J :D

It’s been in the news that there is no calendar after this particular date, so the world is going to sign off. But, our astrologers are smarter who are all there set with their predictions for 2013- according to the zodiac signs. So, have you checked if you have any catastrophe on the store? ;)

Well, I don’t go with the horoscopes, & life is unpredictable-as I believe, so just publishing this post as a memoir if I would be no more. And, if am all there exchanging my thoughts with you- just Laugh Out Loud  :D 

Terrorists/Talibanis should be craving for this doomsday to happen, as their sole purpose is just to murder the lives of human beings, because monsters don’t live et al. And, Ajmal Kasab must be smirking over the gesture of treatment he had received till his death. So what the hell, if he was hanged, everybody is now being queued up for the same.

There is another maxim that one has to reap the thorns for their sins on this earth. But, Delhi Bus Gang Rapists are still alive; in fact, our government is still not done with its verdict that how these monsters are going to repent. And, I’m too young to be counted on this pipeline coz my sin pot is still not even halfway to get full (mere paap ka ghada bharne mein time hai-coz I’m a good girl,hahaha…. ..). So!? 

Well, I’m also wondering whether Salman Khan’s next upcoming film: Dabanng 2 (yes, it’s releasing here on 21st December 2012-the same doomsday date!) would be able to cross the100 crore mark, or his audience would be regretting the last minute of their life for why they did book the ticket in advance? ;)  Did you buy any ticket yet?

Here, most of us are all set with our plans for the celebrations of Christmas & New Year. Are you? Wait! Hold for a day, & let the doom pass away. Get confirmed, & then organize your plans, so that you should not to have to repent the last minute of your life. It’s my humble request & an advice too.

Signing off!

Take care! Please, let me know, if you are still alive  ;) with date & time.

Friday, 7 December 2012

Liebster Blog Award

Liebster Blog Award is an award that is given by the Blogging community to new upcoming & deserving bloggers who have few readers, to motivate the writing bug in them.

It’s a great pleasure receiving this honour on the trajectory of “Exploring Innerself”, at least for me where someone, as here Sasikumar-who blogs at “The Beginner”- thinks me a deserving one (Liebster means ‘dearest/favourite’ in German). So, thank you Sasikumar for giving this prestigious award.


Here are the details on receiving this award:
  1. Each person must post 11 things about themselves.
  2. Answer the questions that the nominator sets for you, plus create 11 questions for the people you nominated.
  3. Choose 11 deserving bloggers & link them.
  4. Go to their blogs & inform them about this.
  5. No tag backs.

Now, 11 things about me:

  1. I believe God keeps conspiring & giving us clue to explore the real ‘we’. Only we have to get the message.
  2. Writing is my passion, it makes me feel bliss.
  3. I love Maggi, rasmalai, & pizza; in fact, I am a big foodie.
  4. I believe in yoga, & not gym.
  5. My physique keeps fluctuating from fab to flab to fab. ;)
  6. I always pray that no girl should get raped. If God has to bring difficulties in her life to make her stronger it should be some other way, but not rape.
  7. I am a very sensitive & emotional girl, but a strong person too.
  8. I believe in forgiveness, apology, & fighting back too.
  9. I believe people & their views get changed. It’s just that: they were ignorant before & now they are in a learning phase.
  10. I am a straight-forward person, & I used to hate liars.
  11. But, now I am less of a stereotype, & have learned to forgive & forget.

Answers to the questions asked by my friend, Sasikumar:

1. Describe yourself in one line.
I am a learner who believes learning at every phase of life.                              

2. Why do you blog?

It makes me relieved out of inhibitions, & makes me feel bliss.

3. What is your aim?

To get the best writer in me.

4. If you have a Super power, what will you do?

I’ll bring equality in the genes of both genders, so that no one could overpower other; & no girl suffers rape.

5. One person whom, you want to be with all your life, why? (Not parents, lover, & children.)

My little sister, because I love her.

6. The person whom you miss desperately, why?

My friend- Shruti. I don’t know why, I am just missing her!

7. Most memorable moment in your life.

Once I went in a restaurant with my Di (I was a school student then!) & waiter served spring-rolls on the table. I just put the hot roll on my mouth whilst the waiter was standing just beside me. I felt like: ‘Gooooo, please, so that I could pull it out of my mouth!’  I could never forget that moment. J

8. Social-networking in your view.

You have the power to use it in either your favour, or mould it to bring the distractions in your life. At the end, it’s your choice!

9. Do you believe in love at first sight, if no-why?

I don’t believe in love at first sight, because people are manipulative these days.

10. One thing you like to change about yourself.

Anger management. ;)

11. Your views on my blog.

It’s a randomly put down of thoughts. I liked the Cinderella story.

I would like to nominate the following bloggers:

  1. Ravindra Rajput- Direct Dil Se

I thought of granting it to Panchali, Shivya Nath, Deepak Kripal, & others too, but they already have many followers. I think I am reading all blessed people, Lol!! ;) So, if you people go through this post, you may answer 'What you think of me & my blog?'. ;)

I would add other deserving bloggers- who have few followers- later as I would get them in contact.

I would like to ask these 11 questions to them:

  1. What is your one best & one negative quality?
  2. Do you live to eat or eat to live?
  3. Which is the best book you ever read?
  4. Whom do you love the most?
  5. What do you like/dislike about other people?
  6. Who do you share your secrets with?
  7. What is your best pass-time?
  8. Do you judge people with their face? Explain.
  9. Have you worn any gemstone?
  10. Do you believe in Astrology & Vaastu-shastra? Reason.
  11. What do you think of me & my blog?

Monday, 3 December 2012

Don the festive look everytime!

Life is too good to spend it in a drowsy way. Get up & have a festive look! You will, for sure, experience an amazing world around. :)

This royal blue outfit with polka dots, net sleeves, & beautiful embroidery on the neck gives you a royal look which is hard to get off the eyes. Pair this with beautiful Infinity jewellery set: gold plated necklace- with clear crystals & a pearl, earrings, & bracelet. Add this with DKNY dark brown wrist watch- making you more appealing. And, with this golden piece of ensemble, wear beautiful Lemon & Pepper gold-stripped sandals.

Cheer up yourself everyday! So, add a fresh look in your office wardrobe.

This attractive Haute Curry all over printed kurta with shaded dupatta & white chudidar pyjama will give you a feel-good factor. Team it up with Infinity earrings, bangle, rhodium plated white gold pendant, & Fastrack wrist watch. Carry this elegant & smart leather bag from Lavie with simple Lemon black-stripped sandals which would just work for you amid hectic schedule. 

And, if you wanna put on something formal & sophisticated yet charming; this next ensemble would be apt for you.

Put on this grey knee-length slim fit formal skirt from Austin Reed with Stop Mix N Match ladies pink cotton slim fit tunic to boost the feminine within you. Go with the crystal earrings, DKNY silver strap watch, & Haute Curry formal black pump shoes to complete the chic look.

There is also a piece of smart ensemble, if you are college going girl.

Don this Latin Quarters roll up sleeves black tunic with white mid waist slim fit Kraus jeggings. Put this black Breo soft touch rubber black strap with round analog dial in black watch on your wrist. Wear AYESHA metallic earrings & Haute Curry casual flat black sandals with upper crotchet to match with. Ensemble Elliza Donatein black (don’t go with the picture) shoulder bag (having patch work along with plaited straps at the edge) to pent up your books, & go for an outing to spend some time with your friends (after the classes) with this brown Opium fashion sunglasses to protect your eyes in noon time. 

Festive season is on full swing with parties & receptions lined up for the whole month.

So, ensemble this Kashish net embroidered stylized border with shimmer lining part-wear sari with Infinity crystal earrings, bracelet, and rhodium plated necklace. Also, an elegant steel strap Titan watch is a must to add on your party wardrobe to complete the look. Pair them with this Lemon evening wear footwear with beads on the upper portion leaving an anklet impression to absolute the sari look with simple & graceful Elliza Donatein wine clutch.

And, if you are invited to a high- profiled party, and would like to wear something classy but modest look; go for this one.

Pair this beautiful Ladies Quarter knee-length coral printed dress in chiffon fabric with AYESHA squared rhinestone studs, Haute Curry black clutch, an FCUK steel strap rectangular dial watch, & matching sandals from Pepper. With this classy look, you will surely get the attention!

Every time when you shall have to roam to different shops- to get a perfect look for the festive season- well prepared in advance! With right ensemble, you might feel more lively & energetic amid prolonged hours from noon to late evening.

Go with this knee-length digital print Seven East kurai with mandarin collar in georgette fabric & black Stop Mix N Match chudidar pyjama. Pair them with a simple red bangle, matching earrings & a tote bag with sequin and embroidered patch from Haute Curry. Wear nice & simple steel strap round dial Citizen Watch with brown faded sunglasses from Opium on noon time, and roam with flat casual Catwalk footwear whilst shopping.

Now, as winter season is here, and (with December) foggy environment is going to rule the northern India; spend your outings while sipping hot coffee-donning a smart & nice look.

Pair this Allen Solly- dark grey, boat neck, waist tie up, full sleeves- knit dress with intarsia pattern with Kraus mid waist skinny fit black jeggings and boots with velvet material from Inch.5. Pair them with Real Effect silver earring with cut stones set in platinum and ESPRIT Timewear black metallic strap & round dial watch to get the gothic but fashionable look.

These outfits have been put together for the contest organized by Indiblogger & ShoopersStop.

This post has won Runner-Up Prize. :)

Saturday, 24 November 2012

Letter to the Inner Voice

      Inner Voice
It’s being said that you are always beautiful, so do I need to get formal & ask you if you are hale & hearty? Every Shakespeare keeps advising to listening one’s inner voice (Oho, blushing!) as it makes one being true to oneself & brings proximity towards God. The Inner Voice is always true & paves the way for true pleasure & happiness.

Having a fervor to explore something new, brought me into this blogging world where I realized (& yes, it’s just because of ‘you’!) that how much I love penning down my thoughts which yearns me for getting into it deeply. It just makes me relieved out of inhibitions. When I execute the cobweb where my feelings were being caged, I feel bliss.

As I inherited this writing bug from my father, besides being brought up in this technically-advanced world, I found my way to cherish the beauty of letters. When my elder sister migrated to a new city for job, I commenced sending her greeting cards on her each birthday while penning down my thoughts onto it which makes her smile &, she keeps her eye on the door for the courier. I could either SMS or e-mail her, but that wouldn’t guarantee a smile on her face which I delineate through a smiley on the back of the card.   

Well! I have written this letter to express gratitude to ‘you’ for letting me know the raison d’etre of mine, whenever there was an aberration. I don’t know if this is a digital letter or an Aerogram to my fellow bloggers, but for me it’s an oblation to the auspicious ‘one’. I know you are always in me, but often it takes distances to cover up that one single route to truth. I pray that I always get to you early.

Yours truly,

This post has been written for the contest WRITE TO READ, an initiative by Pendown & Random House Publishers India.

Saturday, 17 November 2012

Lit Diwali for you

May you blossom everywhere

&, share the platter with joy & care.

May you show the way to happiness

&, light the candle with brightness.

 May your life get full of hues

&, you shine like a star on every nook.

Sunday, 11 November 2012

My Dream Girl!

Albeit, I mean a chatter-box,
but her charisma makes me feel; even I don’t know how to talk.
She exudes confidence with her style of walking,
but don’t know why mine always gets gawky.

Her benevolence makes her more beautiful,
I don’t know even how to get dutiful.
She doesn’t even let a grimness shatter someone,
then how could I flatter her.

I know she is not a chauvinistic,
but don’t know if her family would give me a kick.
I don’t want to make a hash of her life,
but promise to fondle her day & night.

She doesn’t hobnob with everyone,
it gives me a doubt, if I am ‘Someone’.
I gathered my valor to give a shot
&, babbled until she made me stop.

Her three beautiful words froze me,
but her laughter broke the silence, & amazed me.
My Dream Girl is now mine,
I pray, our bond would always shine.

This post has been written for the contest Write Over the Weekend (WOW!) organized by Blogadda.

 This post has been selected as a WOW! post, an initiative by Blogadda.

Wednesday, 7 November 2012

Being Solitary!

It’s not been a single day,
when you weren’t in my pray.
Life has unfolded many curves
&, placed me on different turfs.

I might not roam everyday,
but my soul keeps sway.
My heart screams for you,
it dreams, day & night, only you!

I don’t cherish any fest around,
when you are not surround.
You might be thinking it my chagrin,
but it’s painful to live with such a din.

I might have touched the peak,
but all that seem such a bleak.
Day & night, all seem alike,
when you aren’t at sight.

Tuesday, 23 October 2012

One shopping experience which drove me crazy!

Everyone loves gifts. Albeit, we don’t ask for the same but somewhere we just wish to get it from our loved ones. And, it excites us every time! Gifts drive everyone crazy & one gets crazier when they have to gift the ‘one’ someone!

Thoughts which keep the mind wallowing in are- how your loved ones would react to, whether they would like it, is it really worth of keep, & blah blah blah ......................

But, one thing which makes one bother much more than any thought is- does it give a replica of our miser attitude? Sometimes, we are just short of money but want to gift our loved ones something which would make them feel loved, and doesn’t give them a thought of its cheapness.

Albeit, every time when I have to bestow someone with largesse, my forehead lines protrude-kya doon??? But, this year when my younger sister birthday came in July, I found myself, indeed, helpless!

My relationship with my younger sister is just like a Tom & Jerry Cartoon Show. There are usual fights, then a documentary show where just silence & gestures play a substantial role, and then our love toward each other which is blissful- where everyone just wants to be a part of it.

So, we had a fight a week before her birthday & somehow, we patched up only to go into another one just a day before her birthday. Though, I keep pondering what to gift her on her every birthday but there is always a tendency to have a second choice-in case, if I won’t get the first choice or if it would not be the best one to offer. Because, we had a fight, there was more pressure this time. Her coaching classes were getting cancelled every time & she was all there in home to get my surprise packed for her. It was just her birth-day when I went to have her gift. I went mall to mall but nothing made me feel to offer which also suited my pocket. I am not a miser, but I was just short of money! Finally, I took a back turn to a mall which I visited first. I went Globus, finally to get her bangles. She loves them! I loved just two of the bangles amongst them,  & got baffled with making choice between them-which one to offer. Both were pretty, but one was tagged slightly above the price I could pay for. Finally, I chose the cheaper one (but, it was not so cheap- if you are aware of the brand Globus!).

Because, we had a fight, I wanted to have a patch up before her birthday. I, just, wanted to let her get that I had bought the gift for her. I wanted to get her know. I was pretending to make endeavors to keep her gift a secret from her, but nothing seemed to be working out. Usually, we gift during the cake-cutting ceremony; but this time I was just short of patience. At midnight, when usually I wish her birthday with just kisses & hugs; this time I gifted the bangle too. And, it just made my day (Oops, night!), when she told that she was just wishing to get the ‘same’ bangle when she went with her friends the same Globus showroom. Ahh,............I felt grateful to God that I was short of money!
Well! Now, you won’t have to go through this craziness all thanks to Badhai-an online shopping experience which makes it easy for you, to gift your loved ones, with just a single click. 


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This post has been written for the contest organized by Blogadda & Badhai.