I was just going through the newspaper magazine & ended up with a Bollywood actress’ interview where she talked about her boyfriend & her believe in the institution of marriage.
She doesn’t believe in the institution of marriage. She believes that love is not about binding someone in chain & stamping it with the marriage certificate. True!!!.....As far as there is love & commitment, one doesn’t need to prove it with getting married. Love is all about freedom & sharing emotions with each other, to be there always around your love when he/she needs you most.
Whenever we go through these kinds of stuffs, at once it strikes our mind, ‘how beautiful!!!.........’ We keep praising them for their beautiful emotions & try to adopt it into our lifestyle. A star makes a statement & it becomes a headline of the newspaper.
It struck me too & I kept pondering- ‘do I believe in the institution of marriage or not?’- what I believe is, when someone says that she doesn’t believe in the institution of marriage, she converses a statement to be further added that till her love isn’t going to marry someone else it doesn’t matter whether they are married. Because the moment your love would decide to marry someone other than you, you would go for a question if you weren’t his love. Didn’t he find you good enough to spend his entire life with you, ‘his love’? Don’t you feel, then, to get married?
When you say that you don’t believe in marriage-don’t deny your internal desire with surreal statements- you mean though you believe in marriage & want to exchange your rings, but you want to give your love his own space. You don’t want to compel him; you want him to live his life the way he wants. Love is just like that. It makes you feel free though it wants you to get enclosed into it completely.
Don’t weigh it against the most often situation when someone leaves his/her spouse for another love. It’s something very different as here you may not quote about your perception of marriage.
We are human beings & it hurts when someone, whom you loved the most, ditch you in the midway. Marriage is the certificate of commitment, but yes……..if there is love it doesn’t matter how far it would take you to get that certificate. Eventually, when we get married with the person we are in love with, we feel at the top of the world.
BE IN LOVE & GET MARRIED!!! :) :D